Hi VP, if you can make it through this serenade of sexual woe, I will be grateful for your perspectives.
( And it began in October 2006 )So, VP... I need help.
1. How can I get to the root of this shyness and unwillingness to take control of my own sex life with my boyfriend?
2. I want to get past the whole OMG SUCKING DICK thing and feel less ridiculous when I'm trying to work myself up into trying for all of the second time ever. Suggestions? Experiences?
3. I don't know what to tell him when he's down there. I honestly would rather almost stick to PIV and just self-orgasm when he's not around because again, I feel totally... embarrassed expressing myself sexually around my boyfriend. I don't even know what I like, I've never done much beyond PIV and partners going down on me and getting handsy.
4. I really, really, REALLY prefer the person I am with to be in charge of things but I've always been with really adventurous partners before. Not so here. How can I make our situation work to our advantage?
5. Is this a silly post?