tangerineerinds.livejournal.comOkay, this is kinda long, but I really need answers and Planned Parenthood was overbooked...on a Thursday.
I started birth control on June 1st. At the time, I was unaware of the Sunday Start/Day 1 Period start, so I didn't find it odd that the lady at Planned Parenthood started me on birth control the day I went in there. It was about two/two and a half weeks before I would normally get my period. She told me I had to wait seven days, and then I could stop using a condom.
Well, those seven days passed. I didn't miss one pill, and I took them at the same time everyday. After talking about it, my boyfriend and I decided to wait longer then seven days. It seemed a little ridiculous that I hadn't even passed when I should get my period, so we decided to wait. The day of when I would normally get my period came, and went. We waited that entire week, and still nothing. So, we figured the birth control was working. Though after another discussion, we decided to just wait until I started the new pack, to be safe.
Well, last friday, June 20th, we were having sex and the condom broke. I wasn't too worried about it, as I was almost done my active pills and I had already passed the date for my period (i'm ALWAYS on time, so I knew I was good).
Then, Monday Night, June 23rd, the same thing happened. I have no idea WHY the condoms from Planned Parenthood keep breaking. My boyfriend and I are not stupid when it comes to using condoms, and we did nothing that would have caused them to break. Luckily, he said he noticed that it felt different, and pulled out almost all the way (I stood up and it started dripping down my leg...), so once again, I wasn't worried.
I had some spotting later that day and the next day. And then later on Wednesday, I got my period. It appeared to be pretty normal, and I was three days into my sugar pills.
Well, this is where my questions come into play. I was changing my tampon lastnight, and there was this really weird clot that came out as well. It was about half the length of my thumb, and thicker. It looked like mucus, and was a white color, but a lot of it was red/bloody as well. I started looking things up on health forums, and most of which I found said it was a two week old fetus, or pretty much just a hunk of tissue. I freaked out, called my boyfriend who proceeded to freak out, etc...
But after reading some more, and talking to my friend, I found out that has happened to people before and it was just the uterus lining. My period has gotten heavier, and I had really bad cramps last night but they have gone away. I'm thinking its just the combination of stress/worrying, and the fact that I delayed my period by two weeks that has made it a lot heavier.
If anyone knows anything, or has had this happen to them, I would greatly appreciate anything you can tell me.