metalkprtty1day.livejournal.comI'm basically just here to vent right now.
I clicked this random link from msn where you take a bunch of online quizzes about sex/sexuality. I'm bored...and vagpag has made me addicted to fun stuff like talking about sexual health....plus you can win $250 dollars! Sweet.
Here's the thing though... while most of the info was accurate, there were some things on there that made me angry. First, they used the work "clean" to mean STI-free. I realize this is (unfortunately) still common usage....but I really think a sexual health quiz should know better.
One question (true or false), A woman can't get pregnant on her period. I said false...although I know it is much less likely. The quiz said I was correct, but then proceeded to say, a woman can get pregnant on ANY day of her cycle. Sperm can live for 5 days, yadda, yadda, yadda.......I realize that most people don't chart their cycles, but many do...and this is a valid form of birth control.
Another question said (true or false) "When practiced correctly, withdrawal can be an effective form of birth control." I said...TRUE! Alas, they told me I was wrong. Apparently, when practiced correctly, 1 in 5 women may become pregnant in a year......I'm sorry, what???? Where did you get that information! Maybe that's true if withdrawal is being used not correctly at all...but that wasn't the question that was asked.
It's not like i think you should just run around saying "withdrawal works for everyone!" or "don't worry, you can't get pregnant for a lot of your cycle!" Obviously, both these methods require some extra effort, and trust between partners.......but come on! Why spead lies! I saw a "myth versus reality" thing about sex the other day that made me angry too.
Basically, it just reminded me how much I love you guys.
You're all awesome, keep up the good work.