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[chamorisms.livejournal.com]

so..i have a question. i guess. and i don't know if anyone can help me. so i have a very strong odor emanating from the nether regions. it isn't a bad smell but just my regular smell just amplified. i don't know what it is. i just don't know. and i've been secreting a lot more stuff. i don't know. i seem to think that everything is related to stress. i've been under a lot of stress lately...

i don't know. if anyone has any thoughts about this that would be highly helpful.
thanks :)

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[tree]

i don't know how many of us are in australia, but this is a great site. there's a good deal of general information as well.

menstrual sea sponge

[shellyday.livejournal.com]

so, i just started using the sponge yesterday. i really like it! a few questions though. when i rinsed it out i couldn't get all blood out, there was still some red in it. is this ok? also, why can they only be worn for 3 hours? is this because of blood or TSS risk? i used an organic tampon last night because i didn't want to get up and rinse out my sponge, so i left the sponge out all night and it dried and i put it back in this morning. was that bad because i didn't disinfect it? any thoughts would be greatly appriated.

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[demonsynn.livejournal.com]

Ok....Here's my problem. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and we have had a very rocky realtionship. It took me a long time to be able to make love to him and want it 100% percent. I began to not ever get turned on...And I let that take over my mind....It was like I kept thinking about how "This isn't turning me on one bit" So of corse it wouldn't. Our sex life has been even rockier than our relationship. We went from 2 times a day....to 3 times a week....than we didn't have sex for at least 3 months and now it's about once or twice every two weeks. The last time we TRIED to have sex. I stopped him midway because it seems like he was just laying there...lethargic like. Now I know what some are thinking...He may not be intrested in me anymore but, it's not that. I will admit now to have cheated on him in the past & it's something I havn't really admited to anyone but him and close friends. It's not something I'm proud of and I have been through a lot because of it...So I ask, please don't judge me for that reason....It was just a quick background reference.

Our relationship since I admitted to everything has slowly gotten better with time and him being so loving and caring. He tells me I'm sexy as I do the same for him.....Ahh....I keep rambling and losing train of thought. Point is, through all of our problems and rockiness we succeded and now have a pretty good relationship (ie; loving, flirty, caring, we tell eachother we are best friends)....But, sex life? NADA.

As I was saying earlier...I stopped him midway because it seemed like I was doing everything. It just hit me like a ton of bricks. How can I get him to get in touch with his feminine/romantic side when it comes to our sex life. I've tried telling him certain things that I like and asking what he likes but he is the type of person to take that as crisitism and he gets depressed half way through sex. It's no good. I love him to death and I want to have a good sex life but it just ISN'T working. :(