Newly pregnant & lots of questions! :) (trigger warning: discussion of miscarriage and emetophobia)

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Hey vagina pals,

On tuesday March 31st, I was a few days late for my period (not really unusual, cycle ranges from 28-32 days) so I took a Dollar Tree pregnancy test which was positive! My husband and I are very excited, this is my first pregnancy, will be first child for both of us. I've since taken 3 more pregnancy tests because I can hardly believe it, haha. All have been positive. My first question is, when will this all seem real? I kinda keep forgetting that I'm actually growing a tiny human inside of me. I'm only 5 weeks 1 day pregnant at this time. I think it will seem more real when I start showing or see the first ultrasound.

Next question is, what are some good websites for pregnancy/parents-to-be? Must read books? I've started reading What To Expect.

What can I do to reduce the risk of miscarriage? That is the LAST thing I want, and I've been cringing every time I go to the bathroom because I'm afraid I'll see blood. I've been having some mild-to-moderate cramps in my pelvic area but I read online that this is normal for early pregnancy. Thoughts on this? Experiences?

I made an appointment to see my GP on Monday. I've gone to her for all my pap smears and other female-body related issues for the past couple years, but I think I'll have to start seeing an OB/GYN? Any pointers on how to choose one? I don't really know anyone in the town I live in so I don't have anyone local to ask, besides the doctor.

When do most people start having to buy maternity clothes? I actually have a pretty big need to go clothes shopping right now but I don't want to buy any regular clothes if I have to start buying maternity clothes in a couple months.

Oh shoot, can't believe I almost forgot this question: I am emetophobic and the thought of having morning sickness is pretty daunting. I literally have not thrown up in 15 years and the thought of doing so is pretty terrifying. tips/tricks to deal with morning sickness?

Thanks everyone! Telling our parents today... wish us luck!