BDSM and feminism

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Over the last year I have begun to come to terms with the submissive desires despite my ardent feminism.

Does anyone have any really good resources/blogs/books/articles about either feminist submissives or anything about how good men can like dominating and "degrading" women? I am heterosexual, so it is the gender politics matched with the desires that I want to learn more about.

Thanks!