He's already disrespected your boundaries several times, in the face of *explicit* direction otherwise. That is very, very horrifying to me. I'm honestly not sure actions like that will come from a person who will want to change...he chose to continue hurting you. That's not ok. Imo, ditch him asap and don't settle for anyone who doesn't disrespect your basic rights as a sexual partner.
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Date: 2012-05-01 08:41 am (UTC)