I remember *mumble* years ago going to my junior prom and having *adult* people out on the street gesturing at my chest, acting as if I had over-stuffed my bra or that my natural breasts were too obscene to have in a very modestly cut dress. I've had guys follow me too and I too have been stared down by women who think because I'm large-chested and in public that I must be after every man in sight... because large-chested women are all like that, dontchaknow? Excuse me but my tits aren't public property and neither is the rest of my body and I'm tired of hearing the running commentary on it because I have the gall to be big-chested and in public and wearing comfortable clothing.
It's hard to deal with because people are relentless and they feel it's their god-given right to be critical of a person's body because bodies, especially female-presenting bodies seem to be public property.
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Date: 2012-03-20 01:44 am (UTC)I remember *mumble* years ago going to my junior prom and having *adult* people out on the street gesturing at my chest, acting as if I had over-stuffed my bra or that my natural breasts were too obscene to have in a very modestly cut dress. I've had guys follow me too and I too have been stared down by women who think because I'm large-chested and in public that I must be after every man in sight... because large-chested women are all like that, dontchaknow? Excuse me but my tits aren't public property and neither is the rest of my body and I'm tired of hearing the running commentary on it because I have the gall to be big-chested and in public and wearing comfortable clothing.
It's hard to deal with because people are relentless and they feel it's their god-given right to be critical of a person's body because bodies, especially female-presenting bodies seem to be public property.