(( VaginaPagina ))

I have a hard time asking for certain things in bed too. What I do sometimes is hush my partner and start pleasing myself: either masturbating, or moving on him in a way that stimulates some good spots for me. Obviously I can't speak for all men; but it usually drives him wild to see me turning myself on, and he'll start moving along with me, etc. That's how be learned "tricks" of my body without me having to get all uncomfortable and TELL him.