Are you trying different methods of touching yourself? For a long time I couldn't stimulate myself to orgasm with my hand or fingers, because I was trying what seemed normal -- very direct clitoral stimulation. It turns out that doesn't work for me. Try getting comfortable/feeling safe and sexy however works for you, and, using a little lube, stimulating your genitals in different places and different ways. Long strokes, lying down, sitting up, rubbing against something, focusing on the outer labia, putting fingers inside. Good luck!
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Date: 2011-12-03 01:42 am (UTC)