If you feel comfortable watching porn online, try going on a website like YouPorn & searching for a variety of stuff that you think might turn you on - cunnilingus? gay boys? women masturbating? When you start to feel your body responding & wanting stimulation, you might find that anything you do after that is more effective.
Above all, don't psych yourself out by placing too much importance on orgasm. Just do what feels good & see what happens, without having high expectations or making demands of yourself. You probably wouldn't respond well to a lover who was that demanding, so don't be that way with yourself either!
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Date: 2011-11-29 06:32 pm (UTC)Above all, don't psych yourself out by placing too much importance on orgasm. Just do what feels good & see what happens, without having high expectations or making demands of yourself. You probably wouldn't respond well to a lover who was that demanding, so don't be that way with yourself either!