Everyone is different, so it's really just about trying things out and trying a lot of them. And yes, it can take longer than 10 minutes.
For me, I find that using my fingers right on my skin/clit doesn't stimulate as well, so I've learned to do it ON TOP of my panties, cotton panties are best. I don't know why, it just feels softer and warmer again my skin/clit and that feels way better than fingers right away. It's the same when my boyfriend fingers me, I prefer over panties than raw against the skin.
If you find your fingers/hand are getting tired, try using an object, or even a cushion while laying on your stomach and rub against it. That could work too!
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Date: 2011-11-29 01:26 pm (UTC)Everyone is different, so it's really just about trying things out and trying a lot of them. And yes, it can take longer than 10 minutes.
For me, I find that using my fingers right on my skin/clit doesn't stimulate as well, so I've learned to do it ON TOP of my panties, cotton panties are best. I don't know why, it just feels softer and warmer again my skin/clit and that feels way better than fingers right away. It's the same when my boyfriend fingers me, I prefer over panties than raw against the skin.
If you find your fingers/hand are getting tired, try using an object, or even a cushion while laying on your stomach and rub against it. That could work too!
Good luck~