(( VaginaPagina ))

My hymen has looked the same since I was 8 and first started poking around there with a mirror. (It looks like a scrunchie!) No amount of penis, fingers, toys, vegetables, etc have altered it. Like sweetchild92 says, it doesn't always "break" but often simply stretches, if you had one in the first place.

I have a friend who has been married for years and has a septate hymen, and she and her sweetie just move it aside.