It generally varies from person to person, but guys can work on building up their "resilience" on their own, also, getting to know his own body can help him, such as having you in missionary (I know, I know) or in other positions where he can control the pace and such, and he can slow himself down to last longer.
I've been with guys that last 5 minutes, and the current partner, who lasts FOREVER. Both are sometimes awesome, and sometimes leave me all "ohpoooo" Because my previous partner could completely rock my world in 5-10 minutes, and I've had other guys who could have gone for all of eternity and I would have been completely bored.
I'm really into sex, and I love the experience, so long sex is often wonderful for me, but there are days when I just want some quick orgasms and a nap, and that's not possible with this guy so I'm like "OMG HURRY THE FUCK UP" in my head, sometimes lol
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Date: 2011-04-30 01:00 am (UTC)I've been with guys that last 5 minutes, and the current partner, who lasts FOREVER. Both are sometimes awesome, and sometimes leave me all "ohpoooo" Because my previous partner could completely rock my world in 5-10 minutes, and I've had other guys who could have gone for all of eternity and I would have been completely bored.
I'm really into sex, and I love the experience, so long sex is often wonderful for me, but there are days when I just want some quick orgasms and a nap, and that's not possible with this guy so I'm like "OMG HURRY THE FUCK UP" in my head, sometimes lol