Not that I have a ton of experience with this - being female-bodied myself, but I understand a good method for "lasting longer" includes training by bringing the guy to the edge of cumming (but not actually coming) and having him stop it by either contracting or relaxing his Kegel muscles (it's different for each guy). This could be done via oral, manual, or vaginal sex. The key is to have him last just a bit longer than usual. So if he normally lasts 5mins, try for 6-7min with your first session, and build from there. On the other hand, I wouldn't recommend this method if your guy is going to get down on himself for cumming too soon. It needs to be light, fun, and playful. ;-)
If that option doesn't work, some guys last longer when wearing condoms (the extra layer seems to help a bit). And of course, you can always try the 2x method (he cums once, then again). If you are worried about becoming unaroused during his refractory period, incorporate a sex toy into play that he can use on you until he becomes ready again. After all - dildos never go soft! :-D
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Date: 2011-04-29 08:48 pm (UTC)If that option doesn't work, some guys last longer when wearing condoms (the extra layer seems to help a bit). And of course, you can always try the 2x method (he cums once, then again). If you are worried about becoming unaroused during his refractory period, incorporate a sex toy into play that he can use on you until he becomes ready again. After all - dildos never go soft! :-D