It really depends on the person. My first time with penetration, in my case it was PIV, was painful. Not terribly, but it burned. The next few times were also somewhat painful, and it eased with time and practice.
My sister on the other hand, didn't feel any pain her first time.
Both instances are normal, because it's different for everyone.
Usually, if it hurts for you after numerous times, there may be an underlying issue that needs to be looked into, especially if you're saying it's really painful. To my knowledge, intercourse shouldn't be consistently painful. If you think there's something wrong, to the point of making you stop, then it's definitely something worth looking into.
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Date: 2011-02-18 06:43 am (UTC)My sister on the other hand, didn't feel any pain her first time.
Both instances are normal, because it's different for everyone.
Usually, if it hurts for you after numerous times, there may be an underlying issue that needs to be looked into, especially if you're saying it's really painful. To my knowledge, intercourse shouldn't be consistently painful. If you think there's something wrong, to the point of making you stop, then it's definitely something worth looking into.