Well, my suggestions would be: wait until you're healed up before trying it again. At least everything in that area heals quickly.
Then, were your nails long, or freshly cut? If so, next time you try it, cut them and let the sharpness wear down (or file them down a bit so they aren't sharp) before trying it again.
Were you taking it slowly? If not, try going really slow and moving gently. Sure, it will take longer - but it won't hurt so much. Keep your nails pointing slightly in at the cup, instead of out at your vaginal walls. If using a little lube will help, try that too.
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Date: 2003-10-01 05:37 am (UTC)Well, my suggestions would be: wait until you're healed up before trying it again. At least everything in that area heals quickly.
Then, were your nails long, or freshly cut? If so, next time you try it, cut them and let the sharpness wear down (or file them down a bit so they aren't sharp) before trying it again.
Were you taking it slowly? If not, try going really slow and moving gently. Sure, it will take longer - but it won't hurt so much. Keep your nails pointing slightly in at the cup, instead of out at your vaginal walls. If using a little lube will help, try that too.
Don't give up just yet. Good luck with it!