My husband and I have been using the withdrawal method for 9 years now (basically after my eldest was born). We only had one time that he ejaculated inside of me. That was because we were both drunk and hadn't seen each other in 2 months. So we got kind of carried away. I did get pregnant from that one time.
Personally I think it's a good method so long as you're careful. If there is any chance that he may ejaculate inside of you (like with what happened to us) then definitely use a condom. Because we're married and not too worried about getting pregnant (if we do we do) we don't use any other form of birth control. We have two children who we adore and we're not looking to have another. Withdrawal seems to do pretty well.
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Date: 2010-07-12 07:32 pm (UTC)Personally I think it's a good method so long as you're careful. If there is any chance that he may ejaculate inside of you (like with what happened to us) then definitely use a condom. Because we're married and not too worried about getting pregnant (if we do we do) we don't use any other form of birth control. We have two children who we adore and we're not looking to have another. Withdrawal seems to do pretty well.