I'm assuming you stop to reapply lube as needed, right? If not, you really should. Personally speaking, most times I can get wet just fine, but if the sex lasts longer than normal, it starts to hurt my inner labia (the same sort of burning sensation you described). At first, I was embarrassed about needing lube, but it makes a huge difference. The lube I use is Pjur Woman, which is a silicon based lube.
My other thought is have you tried different positions where you can try other motions than just thrusting? For example, woman on top, you can make a circular motion with your hips, that might mimic his masturbatory motions enough to get him off. In that position you can also preventing him from fully exiting you (and save your inner labia from being tugged).
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Date: 2010-04-12 03:26 pm (UTC)My other thought is have you tried different positions where you can try other motions than just thrusting? For example, woman on top, you can make a circular motion with your hips, that might mimic his masturbatory motions enough to get him off. In that position you can also preventing him from fully exiting you (and save your inner labia from being tugged).