i really just hate the idea of virginity in general.
i was born, as far as i can tell, sans hymen. and i was really confused about that for a lot of years, and thought there was something less womanly or wrong about me, or that i'd lost it in some 'bad' way. being examined for sexual abuse due to frequent UTIs as a child didn't help, because that was one of the reasons it was assumed i 'must have been being abused - more uneducated doctors. some people say they can remember it breaking as a child due to horseback riding or something similar - this never happened to me. the first time my vag bled was my first period, and that was it.
the entire idea of virginity to me has so many variables that it's just ridiculous.
gaah... i don't understand how people like this got out of medical school.
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Date: 2009-11-22 06:08 pm (UTC)i was born, as far as i can tell, sans hymen. and i was really confused about that for a lot of years, and thought there was something less womanly or wrong about me, or that i'd lost it in some 'bad' way. being examined for sexual abuse due to frequent UTIs as a child didn't help, because that was one of the reasons it was assumed i 'must have been being abused - more uneducated doctors. some people say they can remember it breaking as a child due to horseback riding or something similar - this never happened to me. the first time my vag bled was my first period, and that was it.
the entire idea of virginity to me has so many variables that it's just ridiculous.
gaah... i don't understand how people like this got out of medical school.