Backflow?

[happyapathy.livejournal.com]

Hi everyone...I just discovered this community, and it feels a bit weird writing to something called "vaginapagina", but I'm trying to not feel too embarassed about it. ;0)

I only scrolled back a month or two, so if this has already been covered, then I'm sorry in advance.

Okay, my friend and I had a long LJ comment-discussion going about sex without a condom, and what happens when the guy finishes inside of the girl. She complained that every single time it runs right out of her, and that it makes a big old mess (and it's definitely not her fluids). I was wondering if anyone else has experienced this whole 'backflow' problem. I don't want to be having quickies in weird places only to find myself covered with his jizz. If it's going to run out of me all the time, then I might as well use condoms, because to me, sticky legs are more inconvenient than condoms.

Any thoughts?

I've been on the pill for a month, and will soon experience the fun of unprotected sex everywhere I can possibly manage.

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Hello, my name is Katie. Nice to be here.

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[linzbinz.livejournal.com]

Yah, whenever my boyfriend and I have sex without a condom, that happens to me... Maybe you could just wear a pantyliner or something? I dunno...I suppose that could be rather nasty if you were out in public. Good luck!

[danskpige.livejournal.com]

yep, it always happens. there's a reason for it too, i can't remember exactly what it is but i read about it in sperm wars (http://s1.amazon.com/exec/varzea/ts/exchange-glance/Y02Y5974281Y8223367/qid=1016019573/sr=1-1/103-7161355-7600640), which was a great book.

it usually happens within about 30 minutes after sex, most often when you pee. your vagina actually squirts the sperm back out once the cervix is done sucking up what it wants. it's always a good idea to pee within an hour after sex anyway to prevent a bladder infection... i would go ahead and have your fun in all the places you want to try, but just try to get to a bathroom afterwards. most of it all comes out at once, so you can just clean it up and go on your merry way :)

[dearanxiety.livejournal.com]

yep. it happens to the best of us! i kinda like it, though...guess i'm strange.

[mactavish.livejournal.com]

I like it too, though I don't really get to experience it.

It reminds me of how I just had really great sex. It's like afterglow.

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[dearanxiety.livejournal.com]

yeah, totally.

and the other thing is that it makes me feel close to my boy. ya know...we both got tested and i went on the pill because sex with a condom wasn't enough (physically or spiritually (if that's the right word). and i don't get to experience it much either. first of all, it had been a long time (until i met my boy), and second of all he lives far away so we see each other only every so often.

[mactavish.livejournal.com]

I love not using condoms, but I need them for birth control. I have two significant others, and I'm only fluid bonded with one of them. But even with him, condoms keep me from getting pregnant. They're important, that way.

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[dearanxiety.livejournal.com]

yeah, definitely important that way! i'm really lucky that the pill doesn't do bad things to me and that i'm happy on it, so i can use that instead of condoms. but i've mostly used condoms in the past.

[shadowconn.livejournal.com]

I hate that CUM leakage thing. I hate it so much that I do not allow my husband to cum inside me. I think he has cum inside me a total of maybe 5 times in the last 3 years, most of that time we were dating. It pisses him off most times, but I don't want to have to deal with the hassle of that nasty stuff running out of me for up to 24 hours afterword. If he wants to cum inside me he has to wear a condom.

[bonniebon.livejournal.com]

I'm fond of quickies but don't like having semen dribbling out of me for ages afterwards! I found a good solution, I always wash or wipe myself clean after sex anyway, but I found that gently cleaning out the vagina with clean wet fingers does the trick really well, it also prevents the irritation I can sometimes get if semen stays in me too long (semen is alkaline and can disrupt the natural ph balance of the vagina). The only other solution is to use condoms, leaving the guy all messy instead!

[katie-ah.livejournal.com]

your partner in crime has an answer:

yes, the cum leakage sucks ass. but, there's a plus side to this. you should go pee after sex anyway, just to prevent bladder infections (have you ever had one? they really suck. hardfuckingcore) usually, i can get rid of the cum when i go to the bathroom and wipe and such. so, it's kind of fun, you get to have real sex and whatnot, get rid of the cum and get rid of a big part of bladder infections! yay!!