just something I'd like to share..

[aileybay.livejournal.com]

Hey ya'll!  I'm a proud lurker of this community, and I love seeing all of the supportive comments, and educational entries.  This one isn't exactly a question, but more like an experience I'd like to share...

I've liked this guy for a really long time, and had an idea that he liked me back, but last night we hooked up for the first time.  We didn't have PIV sex (I'm a virgin), but we did everything except that.  I've never had anyone go down on me, and have never gone down on anyone, so this was a big nights of firsts for me (he's not a virgin in any manner).  I was so nervous at first, but he was incredibly nice about the whole thing, assuring me that he wanted to please me.  I've always been nervous about having too much hair, or smelling weird, but he was so eager to go down on me it made me feel more and more comfortable with my body.  He fingered me also, and I don't think I had what people would call a conventional orgasm, but the feelings just built and built and built, and finally my right foot was cramping up a little bit and i was extremely light headed, so I had to ask him to stop, and he got really worried, but I assured him that it was so good I couldn't take it anymore...I even got a little teary eyed and emotional!  I think he thought it was endearing.  But anyway, I gave him a blowjob, and was surprised at how soft his penis was....I also liked how I could feel and see his muscles twitching uncontrollably...I had to stop myself from laughing!

I know there's not really a purpose to this entry...I just wanted to share my first experience being so entirely comfortable with someone, completely naked.  He was exactly how I wanted my "first time" (though not PIV) to be.  I'm so much more confident with my body now that I know someone loves it more than I do.

Comments

[lil-goldielocks.livejournal.com]

I know there's not really a purpose to this entry...I just wanted to share my first experience being so entirely comfortable with someone, completely naked. He was exactly how I wanted my "first time" (though not PIV) to be. I'm so much more confident with my body now that I know someone loves it more than I do.


congrats to you. i'm glad you were with someone who made you feel completely comfortable and accepting of your body. that really is awesome.

i'm a virgin too, and in no way ready for that at all.

thats great that your comfortable in your own skin. go you!

[paperispatient.livejournal.com]

I love happy VP stories! A guy who enjoys performing oral sex can really do wonders for your self-esteem and self-image - I'd been with two partners who ranged from neutral about it to disliking it, and then I was with a guy for about six months who LOVED going down on me (and who was ridiculously amazing at it), and it was so fulfilling in a number of ways, more so than just physically. Glad you had a good time! :)

[otherrootbeer.livejournal.com]

Thank you for sharing your experience!

I get that way too sometimes... where it builds and builds and builds and I just have to call a stop to it because things get over sensitive.

[deathbytamarind.livejournal.com]

I love to hear the stories about good first time sex stuff. There are just too many out there who regret their first times or didn't have fun.

It took me about ten tries to get it right when giving a blowjob. That first time getting it right was also the first time I swallowed and it was like "oh that's it? This isn't so bad."

So good for you! Here's to more good sex stuff in your future.

[pyraterose.livejournal.com]

Same on the bj thing. He didn't believe me when I said I'd never done it before. I had a blast! I was confused because everyone says it's so gross and whatever. I was like, "this is fun! I have no idea what they're talking about!"

[aileybay.livejournal.com]

lol, i know right! i don't know if other guys don't keep themselves clean, but my guys privates were baby-soft and just wonderful. haha..

[fleurdiabolique.livejournal.com]

I'm so glad you had a good first experience. :) He sounds like a great guy, and it's good to hear you had a fun time!

[tacky-tramp.livejournal.com]

I'm glad you had a positive experience! And yeah, penises are hilarious.

[pyraterose.livejournal.com]

Oh goodness this sounds exactly like the last few weeks for me haha. I have my first boyfriend and I feel the same way. It's awesome to feel so comfortable around someone else like that, especially when I can't stand even seeing myself naked hahah.

[lbktt.livejournal.com]

This is a great post, Thank you for sharing, I have the same concerns about receiving and I hope that it will go the same for me

[aileybay.livejournal.com]

thank you, and i hope everything goes well for you! :]

[http://users.livejournal.com/_oceansong_/]

I really appreciated this post =) I'm 19 and a virgin, never done anything sexual because I haven't found the right guy (and now I'm pretty sure I have, but he's a staunch no sex till marriage type - alas!), but it's very comforting to read stories like this. thank you so much for sharing!