Date: 2009-03-15 10:19 am (UTC)
First I would take a real hard look at your relationship. I have noticed in myself and others that we have a tendency to brush off the bad parts of our relationships and focus so much on the good that the bad parts build up until you can't ignore them anymore. I would spend an hour or so and really think about this away from him. I personally a fan of writing things down just to get it out of my head. Chances are this isn't the only portion of your relationship that needs work. Problems aren't usually isolated. Then I would think back about when this all started (which it sounds like you have been)

I do like bumperless's idea that this is a we problem. Then I would set aside a night were you can have a long dinner and talk. Talk about everything, good and bad about your relationship. Try really really hard not to get overly emotional. Many guys really don't know how to deal with it and he will clam up rather fast. It seems like this is his defense mechanism. My personal trick on friends like that is if they start making that body language as in crossing their arms. I grab there hand & hold it why we talk. Be prepared for silence as he processes what you say. Figure out what you want out of the night, and communicate what you want and are willing to do for it. Just realize you need to both put effort into fixing this. You need to feel sexually wanted in this relationship & that is normal. He should be willing to work with you on this.

Good Luck
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