it hurt like hell the first time i had sex. after the first time, we were having sex like twice a day for a pretty long time and it stop hurting initially for like two weeks i'd say. then it stopped hurting completely. a lot of it could be you aren't wet enough. this doesn't really mean there's not enough foreplay; your nerves can play a factor. i was a bit nervous, therefore even though i was turned on i still wasn't getting wet enough. also, if your body is tense it's going to hurt more. so, perhaps try relaxing and using lube. eventually you might not need lube. also, fingering and oral are a godsend. hope that helps :)
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Date: 2009-03-15 12:13 am (UTC)