confused masterbation and skin tags?

[anacoquette.livejournal.com]

1. i know that others don't like to admit they masturbate but i really don't! i would like to though! (feels like im missing out)
I have no sex drive i guess despite being 18? I've poked and fingered and has others do the same but im not getting it. at one point i had a girl work something with my clit which caused a "woah" reacton from me, but i wouldn't describe it really as a good or bad feeling.. just sensitive/jumpy?
regardless i don't have an "itching for more." i mean is this normal? to be so apathetic? im never masturbating yet want to.

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(nothing to do with masturbation. my butthole if you please.)
2. this has never given me any problems and only recently i've decided to investigate it but i have what i thought was hemorrhoids on my bum and i tried to look at it but too difficult to see) but it feels like just 2 pieces of extra skin around my hole.(very squishy bumps?)  since no problems i though, skin tag? or can external hemorrhoids have no symptons? i have one other skin tag on my armpit if that means anything.

Comments

[koliebo.livejournal.com]

regarding the skin tags... that might just be your inner labia.

[anacoquette.livejournal.com]

sorry i thought i was clear i was talking about my rectum.

[koliebo.livejournal.com]

oh wow. sorry, I'm pretty tired right now, and I'm really having trouble focusing. >_< I guess I should know better than to try to offer advice when I'm like this!

[sutaseiu.livejournal.com]

I masturbate, but it's far from important to me. It happens on rare occasions (I've probably gone a year in between before), and it's something I don't usually want to do, even when I am turned on. Sooo I don't think not feeling like it is all that strange.

[bryberry.livejournal.com]

I dont' have any advice - but how cool is Dr Horrible?!?!

'The hammer is my penis'

[seafoamgreen.livejournal.com]

LMAO!! What a crazy random happenstance!!

[paperispatient.livejournal.com]

I don't think it's abnormal to not be terribly interested/successful at masturbation. Most of my friends do it, but one or two say that they've tried on occasion but don't really see what the fuss is about. What Your Mother Never Told You About S-E-X is a really awesome book and there's a part on masturbation that you might find helpful if you're wanting to try it but aren't totally sure what to do, the whole book has a really positive and open tone and is really informative. :)

[gaijin-grrl.livejournal.com]

I wasn't into masturbation until I got older and discovered toys that vibrate. Manual (and oral, actually) stimulation never did a thing for me, I'm just not very sensitive or else everything way deep inside and hard to get at. Once I figured out what works, I got more into it, although my libido is still not especially high.

Skin tags are harmless. Obviously, have a doctor check them out if you can. They might be able to remove them if they have a potential to be irritated or get infected.

[hiriel1804.livejournal.com]

Masturbation does nothing for me either, but I don't feel like I'm missing out, so I just don't masturbate, and am perfectly happy with that.

[gabardinedreams.livejournal.com]

maybe you need visual stimulation or you need to read erotic literature or something? I don't masturbate without porn.. I need either porn or my boyfriend around, otherwise sex rarely crosses my mind, and I can't get aroused without some sort of visual stimulation or manual stimulation that isn't from myself.

But really, there's nothing wrong with not masturbating. A lot of people have tried it and just.. don't see the appeal.

Also you might need stimulation from toys or even the faucet/showerhead?

[lifeofsomekind.livejournal.com]

im not 100% positive, but i think a skin tag on the butthole might be a sign of INTERNAL hemorrhoids.
my gyno told me, if you gotta poop, DO NOT strain. you will get hemorrhoids. but i think she meant that i already have them, internally. because my butt will really hurt if my poop is big. or if i am going after not going for a while (sometimes i go through these little constipation fits.)

about masturbation: im certain that ive been masturbating for so long, that when i didnt even know what i was doing was called masturbating. like maybe since i was 10-12. im 22 now.

[anacoquette.livejournal.com]

i've never really had any problems though. sure if you have to take a massive dump and hold it there's gonna be a bit of trouble coming out but really nothing that affected me other than i can feel them there.

how long can you have internal ? because i remember having these "skin tags" for years.

[lifeofsomekind.livejournal.com]

bahah yeah. i guess yr right.