Your boyfriend sounds like a total ass. I'm sorry but that is so fucking insensitive.
You've been together four years, you've never had sex with anyone else and he's saying he hasn't cheated. At least I'm presuming that he says that. It seems to me that if it was herpes, he would've been the carrier you got it from.
Thus far, it doesn't really sound that much like HSV to me. Obviously you're doing the right thing to get it checked out--it *could* be, but I don't think it is. I believe you can get more than one cyst at a time--it really sounds more like that to me.
I just feel ill on your behalf. Your partner should be loving and supportive in a situation like this and he's being a conclusion-jumping, rude buttmonkey. I'm sorry to be so rude, I just want to give you a big hug and make the mean go away.
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Date: 2008-10-01 09:41 pm (UTC)You've been together four years, you've never had sex with anyone else and he's saying he hasn't cheated. At least I'm presuming that he says that. It seems to me that if it was herpes, he would've been the carrier you got it from.
Thus far, it doesn't really sound that much like HSV to me. Obviously you're doing the right thing to get it checked out--it *could* be, but I don't think it is. I believe you can get more than one cyst at a time--it really sounds more like that to me.
I just feel ill on your behalf. Your partner should be loving and supportive in a situation like this and he's being a conclusion-jumping, rude buttmonkey. I'm sorry to be so rude, I just want to give you a big hug and make the mean go away.