if you dont trust condoms, i suggest an IUD. i love my mirena because i dont ever have to think about it, im protected 100% of the time, and its totally, completely idiot-proof. thats my favorite part. you simply cant mess up!
have you and your boyfriend ever talked about what would happen if you did become pregnant? having a clear plan may help relieve a lot of your anxiety.
are there any other issues that may be causing you to not want to participate in sex? self-esteem issues? past trauma issues? (you dont need to answer me on that...) because if this is causing you to loose sleep and is causing serious problems with your interpersonal relationships, maybe it is time to find someone to talk to (besides the lovely men and women of VP on LJ.)
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Date: 2008-09-11 02:43 am (UTC)have you and your boyfriend ever talked about what would happen if you did become pregnant? having a clear plan may help relieve a lot of your anxiety.
are there any other issues that may be causing you to not want to participate in sex? self-esteem issues? past trauma issues? (you dont need to answer me on that...) because if this is causing you to loose sleep and is causing serious problems with your interpersonal relationships, maybe it is time to find someone to talk to (besides the lovely men and women of VP on LJ.)