You should check out the Everyday Body Project (http://community.livejournal.com/vaginapagina/9358497.html) it includes pictures of real VP members' breast, vulvas, tummies, butts, and bodies. I bet you'll find some breasts that look like yours on there.
As a man, I just want to tell you what you already know: most people who are attracted to women don't care what their breasts look like. It's just nice that they're there. (And I, for one, have a pretty liberal definition of what "there" even means.) Think of it like icing on a cake: some people like huge flowers all over the place, and some of us are like "damn, I can't eat that. I'd need to drink a gallon of milk" other times you think "it would be nice if there were a little more here, but I'll jsut spread it around and make it work. Maybe I'll eat the cake bit first and save the frosting for last". Most of the time, though, you're just happy the frosting's there-- it doesn't matter what it looks like, you're going to eat it.
A sightly disturbing analogy maybe, but I think it communicates what I'm trying to say. While making me hungry.
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Date: 2008-08-12 04:28 pm (UTC)As a man, I just want to tell you what you already know: most people who are attracted to women don't care what their breasts look like. It's just nice that they're there. (And I, for one, have a pretty liberal definition of what "there" even means.) Think of it like icing on a cake: some people like huge flowers all over the place, and some of us are like "damn, I can't eat that. I'd need to drink a gallon of milk" other times you think "it would be nice if there were a little more here, but I'll jsut spread it around and make it work. Maybe I'll eat the cake bit first and save the frosting for last". Most of the time, though, you're just happy the frosting's there-- it doesn't matter what it looks like, you're going to eat it.
A sightly disturbing analogy maybe, but I think it communicates what I'm trying to say. While making me hungry.