I don't usually orgasm during sex either, and it used to bother me. But sit down and think are you really unhappy with the sex you're having. If you're having fun, then just enjoy it. My sex life got alot better once I stopped worrying about orgasming at all. Now, if it happens it's great. But as long as I'm having fun and sex feels good, then I'm fine.
Best of luck with whatever you chose. I'd try to get as much medical info as possible before doing anything--organs down there are sensitive and you woulnd't want something to go awry!
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Date: 2008-06-20 06:31 pm (UTC)Best of luck with whatever you chose. I'd try to get as much medical info as possible before doing anything--organs down there are sensitive and you woulnd't want something to go awry!