For reference, I'm about 15 years older than you are and I've been sexually active for 18.5 years. Just so you have some perspective on how qualified I am to make the following statements. :)
I can count on one hand the number of times I've had what you call a 'vaginal orgasm.' (I assume you mean no clitoral stimulation?)
I have *never* had a clitoral orgasm during sexual intercourse without help (usually toys).
I have them no problem during things-that-are-not-intercourse.
I used to feel bad about it. I felt like I took too long, especially because sometimes, it just doesn't happen at all. I have learned that every woman is different. There's no "right way" to get off, and there's no way that works for everyone. I don't see what difference an enhanced G-spot is going to make if it's not being properly stimulated. And having had many years of sex, lemme tell you, it's far more common for it NOT to be properly stimulated.
Maybe you are missing out on something. But you're built the way you're built. Just because my ex had an ex-gf who could come if you just *looked* at her the right way (practically) doesn't mean I was a worse lover than her. I was just different.
If you feel that bad about this and can afford it, get the shot if you like. I personally wouldn't do it just because my boyfriend has a friend who tried this with amazing results. I wish you luck!
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Date: 2008-06-20 02:42 pm (UTC)I can count on one hand the number of times I've had what you call a 'vaginal orgasm.' (I assume you mean no clitoral stimulation?)
I have *never* had a clitoral orgasm during sexual intercourse without help (usually toys).
I have them no problem during things-that-are-not-intercourse.
I used to feel bad about it. I felt like I took too long, especially because sometimes, it just doesn't happen at all. I have learned that every woman is different. There's no "right way" to get off, and there's no way that works for everyone. I don't see what difference an enhanced G-spot is going to make if it's not being properly stimulated. And having had many years of sex, lemme tell you, it's far more common for it NOT to be properly stimulated.
Maybe you are missing out on something. But you're built the way you're built. Just because my ex had an ex-gf who could come if you just *looked* at her the right way (practically) doesn't mean I was a worse lover than her. I was just different.
If you feel that bad about this and can afford it, get the shot if you like. I personally wouldn't do it just because my boyfriend has a friend who tried this with amazing results. I wish you luck!