I can relate. I have a kind-of absurd sex drive, I'm pretty much ready to go any time. The dude I'm banging, on the other hand, does not have this same ridiculous sex drive. It makes me feel kind of irrationally upset sometimes when I really want to play and he's not into it because whenever he wants it, I'm naked in the blink of an eye and ready to go. Our sex is amazing, and plentiful by most people's standards, but I've been masturbating on average 3+ times a day since probably before middle school. It's not an actual problem for us because I don't get very upset, I just feel a little stupid and burdensome (which I have acknowledged is irrational).
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Date: 2008-05-12 04:02 pm (UTC)