Unless your labia are so long that they already cause problems like pain or getting caught places (I've heard that this can happen; I'm not trying to be funny!), I wouldn't be concerned. As for aesthetics, that's really all on you and your attitude towards your body. Don't compare yourself to other women, especially porn stars (because Lord knows what they've had done); your vulva is more than likely well within the range of normalcy.
Chances are, your guy won't even care what your vulva looks like. If he does, and especially if he makes fun of you, then he doesn't need to be having sex with you, and you don't need to waste your time with someone like that.
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Date: 2008-04-13 10:34 pm (UTC)Chances are, your guy won't even care what your vulva looks like. If he does, and especially if he makes fun of you, then he doesn't need to be having sex with you, and you don't need to waste your time with someone like that.