(( VaginaPagina ))

Aaahhh. Well, I don't think she should berate herself, sometimes it takes longer for some people to develop sexually. It wasn't until recently that I could relax enough with my partner so that I could achieve an orgasm on a regular basis (I'll be 27 in a few months). Before that, even with knowing what I liked on my own, it was virtually impossible for any partner to come close because I was so fixated on it. edited to add that I've been sexually active for 13 years - so yeah, I guess some people are lucky enough to figure those things out at the get go or close to, while it takes a while for others.