I wasn't ever spanked as a child (I'm sure my parents would have, if necessary, but I was a completely timid and wussy kid - so I was hardly ever naughty), and yet I could be considered a deviant by more conservative types.
Also, if that was the case, wouldn't all of the older generations of people - those who were spanked and more - be full of deviants? Yet, stereotypically, the older generations are the ones who frown on "deviant" behaviour.
Also, both of my besties were spanked as kids. One of them even had to go out and choose her own switch (bit of stick off a tree - too thin and she'd get in more shit). The other ones mother would be considered abusive, by todays standards (actually, even then it was borderline). Neither of them would ever consider trying some of the things I've done. So.
Is the general population just way more closed-minded than Vagpag when it comes to sex?
For sure. Well, I think there's a bigger divide now, between those who are and those who aren't. Or, possibly, more people are willing to admit to being a bit more adventurous (actually, that's not the right word, I can't think of the right one), especially on here - which worries (and scares) the people who are less so.
OR ... I could be talking out of my arse, because I've only been awake for 15 minutes and I'm only 1/2 way through my first coffee.
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Date: 2008-03-02 12:08 am (UTC)I wasn't ever spanked as a child (I'm sure my parents would have, if necessary, but I was a completely timid and wussy kid - so I was hardly ever naughty), and yet I could be considered a deviant by more conservative types.
Also, if that was the case, wouldn't all of the older generations of people - those who were spanked and more - be full of deviants? Yet, stereotypically, the older generations are the ones who frown on "deviant" behaviour.
Also, both of my besties were spanked as kids. One of them even had to go out and choose her own switch (bit of stick off a tree - too thin and she'd get in more shit). The other ones mother would be considered abusive, by todays standards (actually, even then it was borderline). Neither of them would ever consider trying some of the things I've done. So.
Is the general population just way more closed-minded than Vagpag when it comes to sex?
For sure. Well, I think there's a bigger divide now, between those who are and those who aren't. Or, possibly, more people are willing to admit to being a bit more adventurous (actually, that's not the right word, I can't think of the right one), especially on here - which worries (and scares) the people who are less so.
OR ... I could be talking out of my arse, because I've only been awake for 15 minutes and I'm only 1/2 way through my first coffee.