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Hi, I'm 16, and my boyfriend and I have just recently started having sex. We've been together for about 5 months now and since we plan on staying together for quite a while, I decided I wanted to go on birth control if we're having sex. We went to the Planned Parenthood clinic and I got the Depo Provera shot within an hour of being there. It was fast and easy and I am really happy I did it. The only problem is, I'm a Bipolar type 2, I have severe depression and am recovering from Anorexia Nervosa. I am currently taking Trileptal to help stabilize my moods, Klonopin for anxiety, and Trazodone to help me sleep. The lady at PP told me that I would have mood swings with the shot, but I am wondering if they will be unbearable. Does anyone have any experiences with the shot? I just need some reassurance that I'll be okay. Any other side effects that any of you have had would be appreciated as well.
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Date: 2008-01-11 07:32 pm (UTC)Were you warned that depo causes documented weight gain? (http://www.brown.edu/Student_Services/Health_Services/Health_Education/sexual_health/ssc/depo.htm) It's not much - generally 2 pounds per year which is practically water weight. However, with a history of anorexia and other mental disorders besides (which I'm sure do NOT help) I'm worried about what may happen to your mental health if you find yourself gaining weight.
If you find yourself struggling with your eating disorder again due to the shot, I STRONGLY encourage you to find a different method that works for you. I had a good friend with bulimia in high school so I have a good understanding of how awful EDs can be and I want you to not have to suffer through that anymore if you can help it.
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Date: 2008-01-11 07:49 pm (UTC)Also, the mood swings of the shot were just awful for me, but again it all depends on the person. You should talk to your councilor when you go in for your therapy and make sure they have you on medications that will work best for the shot, though I am sure you're just fine.
Remember too, please, that these are just my personal experiences and opinions.
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Date: 2008-01-11 08:36 pm (UTC)Me? You could not PAY me to go back on it.
Cons: Massive depression, acne, anxiousiousness, when my period DID return, I thought I "this must be what giving birth is like", the blood was so thick, and the cramps so bad.
Pros: No periods for 9 months, LOST weight (supposedly unheard of, but that's because when I get depressed to the level that Depo took me, I stop eating), no pill to remember
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Date: 2008-01-11 08:50 pm (UTC)But the shot not only made my body crazy (heavier constant periods, weight gain, lack of appetite and loss of interest in sex) but it made me have mood swings from hell. I was constantly yelling at my child. My husband couldn't walk through the house without me blowing up at him.
My husband almost left me because of the problems it caused. And I don't have any issues (depression, anxiety etc).
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Date: 2008-01-11 09:36 pm (UTC)I agree with the person that said there's a red flag here. Depo is known to cause mood swings, so definitely watch out for that or if you just feel something isn't right. Depo, when used correctly, is a very effective form of bc, but I am not sure whether your medications will interfere with it. I would ask your provider.
That said, I don't mean to scare you. I had a bad experience with it, but some women LOVE it.
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Date: 2008-01-12 06:43 am (UTC)You may wonder why i continued to get the shots. I was young (early twenties) and didn't know how to stand up for myself at the doctors office. They never let me talk to my actual doctor, they were just TOO busy, so i only got to talk to her assistant nurse, even when i went in to get the shots i never saw the actual doctor. The nurse would always blow me off by telling me that it was normal and not that bad, and it would go away in a few months. After a year and three months i put my foot down. Thats also when i stopped going to that doctor. It has been a few years and i still can't find a obgyn in my area that actually listens or doesn't change offices every few months. I go to a new one at the end of the month that a friend of mine recommended. The experience taught me that I know my body best and that you sometimes have to make a little noise when you are being ignored by the people you are paying to care for you. So it wasn't a total loss.
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Date: 2008-01-12 07:28 pm (UTC)but, as one of the above comments said that trileptal interferes with some birth control.. that's about it.
basically i only wanted to comment that i'm bipolar too and i'm on trileptal and i have to say... it really freaking changed my life. i'm so much better on it, i hope you've had the same experiences with it! =]