But just so you know, lots of women are told they can't give birth vaginally b/c they have a small pelvis. Most of the time that is a load of CRAP because the pelvis expands @ 3 different places during labor--so the only time someone can diagnose a truly "too small" pelvis is after a trial of labor. So in the future, if you have kids, don't let yourself be comandeered into a C-section without at least looking into it a little more. (Unless you want one anyway, as long as it's YOUR choice!)
Honestly I am still kind of skeptical of a Dr. telling you that your pelvis is too small to get pleasure from sex. It seems like...it's kind of a hopeless diagnosis :/ so maybe if you don't believe it, having pleasure from penetration will be easier for you! (And manyyyyyyy women don't have pleasure from this at all, so... its not abnormal!). Maybe your vagina is on the short side & your man is on the long side... that could be causing the pain, too...not necessarily some kind of skeletal issue.
But anyway, what do I know, I'm just throwing things out there. Have fun & experiment!
We've found that a pillow under my hips helps a lot w/ allowing deeper penetration w/ less pain.
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Date: 2007-10-30 04:05 am (UTC)But just so you know, lots of women are told they can't give birth vaginally b/c they have a small pelvis. Most of the time that is a load of CRAP because the pelvis expands @ 3 different places during labor--so the only time someone can diagnose a truly "too small" pelvis is after a trial of labor. So in the future, if you have kids, don't let yourself be comandeered into a C-section without at least looking into it a little more. (Unless you want one anyway, as long as it's YOUR choice!)
Honestly I am still kind of skeptical of a Dr. telling you that your pelvis is too small to get pleasure from sex. It seems like...it's kind of a hopeless diagnosis :/ so maybe if you don't believe it, having pleasure from penetration will be easier for you! (And manyyyyyyy women don't have pleasure from this at all, so... its not abnormal!). Maybe your vagina is on the short side & your man is on the long side... that could be causing the pain, too...not necessarily some kind of skeletal issue.
But anyway, what do I know, I'm just throwing things out there. Have fun & experiment!
We've found that a pillow under my hips helps a lot w/ allowing deeper penetration w/ less pain.