If you don't want to touch a penis, with your hands or otherwise, why on earth would you be comfortable with having a penis inside you?
Before you think about having sex you should look into why you think a penis is gross, and then take it from there.
There's no chart as to what you should or shouldn't do. No check list when it comes to sex, but if you make the choice to have sex, you should be comfortable with his body parts as well as your own.
If you're scared, you should wait. Don't have sex ONLY because you want to pleasure him. He will not have any pleasure in having sex with you if you're uncomfortable or grossed out by a penis.
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Date: 2007-10-29 10:39 pm (UTC)Before you think about having sex you should look into why you think a penis is gross, and then take it from there.
There's no chart as to what you should or shouldn't do. No check list when it comes to sex, but if you make the choice to have sex, you should be comfortable with his body parts as well as your own.
If you're scared, you should wait. Don't have sex ONLY because you want to pleasure him. He will not have any pleasure in having sex with you if you're uncomfortable or grossed out by a penis.