I'm again not the best person to give advice on this particular phobia, but I would advise you to realize that it's okay and you are not a freak for having a phobia. I have many very sexually liberated friends that have zero interest in anal sex or much butt contact. One of them even tried it in a controlled setting with a lot of trust, lube, communication, etc., but she just couldn't get into it, because she's not into it. That's okay! Don't feel like a piece of shit just because you have a phobia. Don't feel like a piece of shit because you don't like something, either. It's okay.
I have a phobia about driving in traffic. I don't have a driver's license, and an adult that can't drive has a lot more social stigma that someone who has a phobia about being touched on their ass. Also, from what I have heard from friends, it's a possibility that this will change for you over time. Not that you will want to have receptive penis in ass sex, but that you might be more okay with touching or stroking around your butt, if that's something that you might want to be comfortable with in the future.
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Date: 2007-08-14 06:40 am (UTC)I have a phobia about driving in traffic. I don't have a driver's license, and an adult that can't drive has a lot more social stigma that someone who has a phobia about being touched on their ass. Also, from what I have heard from friends, it's a possibility that this will change for you over time. Not that you will want to have receptive penis in ass sex, but that you might be more okay with touching or stroking around your butt, if that's something that you might want to be comfortable with in the future.