Knowing what sort of things you like is useful, because then you can tell him better -- and learning what he likes is useful, because then you can say, "Okay, this? This is a lot harder/faster/slower/lighter than I like." Compare it to what gets him going.
Another thing to do is spend some time just, well, massaging. Like up from one foot or ankle and sort of explore and not... push buttons randomly. *grin* A slow and methodical course of "study."
Only condoms I've used long-term were Naturalambs (which are not deemed effective against STIs/STDs, but we've used 'em for over 10 years without breakages).
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Date: 2007-08-13 11:52 pm (UTC)Another thing to do is spend some time just, well, massaging. Like up from one foot or ankle and sort of explore and not... push buttons randomly. *grin* A slow and methodical course of "study."
Only condoms I've used long-term were Naturalambs (which are not deemed effective against STIs/STDs, but we've used 'em for over 10 years without breakages).
Luck with the practice!