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The above comment is right, you shouldn't have to just "deal with it", as in you can be more gentle and slow at first or work up to it with fingers. On the other hand, you unfortunately do have to kind of deal with the pain :P When I tore my hymen it hurt like a bitch for a day or two, I had to kind of waddle around slowly haha, and then stung for oh, a week?

I mean, it's normal for it to hurt for a decent amount of time but 2 weeks is rather long.