The amount of misinformation regarding sex and masturbation would be funny if it weren't so destructive.
You haven't "ruined" yourself by masturbating, regardless of what age you started doing it. You may have trained yourself to reach an orgasm more quickly through clitoral stimulation, but "ruining" is such an improper term.
There are plenty of women who are unable (or find it VERY difficult) to reach orgasm through PIV sex alone. So thinking that it's "normal" to orgasm that way is just bad thinking. I wish we could do away with the idea of "normal" sex altogether. Call something normal, and one could easily find hundreds of people who think otherwise.
At any rate, like many things in life, when you stop TRYING so hard, it'll probably come much more quickly to you. Enjoy the ride (haha) and just have fun with sex.
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Date: 2007-06-07 09:19 pm (UTC)You haven't "ruined" yourself by masturbating, regardless of what age you started doing it. You may have trained yourself to reach an orgasm more quickly through clitoral stimulation, but "ruining" is such an improper term.
There are plenty of women who are unable (or find it VERY difficult) to reach orgasm through PIV sex alone. So thinking that it's "normal" to orgasm that way is just bad thinking. I wish we could do away with the idea of "normal" sex altogether. Call something normal, and one could easily find hundreds of people who think otherwise.
At any rate, like many things in life, when you stop TRYING so hard, it'll probably come much more quickly to you. Enjoy the ride (haha) and just have fun with sex.