vaginapagina | embarrassing spots + genital warts. (Reply)

okay i have a couple of questions:

FIRSTLY... around the end of last week i was getting dressed and felt a pain on my butt, looked in the mirror and it turns out i have a massive red pimple there.. "great" i think and carry on. anyway by the next morning it is RAGING, bright red and reaaaaally painful, like the kind of painful that when i sit on it it hurts. it's on the edge of my ass by the way lol.. almost on the side of my thigh, but still ON MY ASS ie. embarrassing location. so i apply some 8hr cream (elizabeth arden, amazing stuff) not expecting it to work, but it does, and within a day or so it's gone down considerably anddd come to a slight head which means i'm able to squeeze some pus out of it (fun stuff). so now it's practically completely flat, more of a dull red-purple than bright red, and it doesn't hurt anymore.. HOWEVER. it's still the size it was (about a cm across either way) and very, very noticeable. i have noticed in the past that ass pimples, for some unknown reason, tend to scar more than others even when you don't pick them or anything - they're just bastards like that. i mean, on my shoulder blade i have a few scars from spots that i've been stupid enough to pick and thus turn into scabs that scar - but i've done NOTHING of the sort with this one! the most i've done is squeeze that pus out and i was very gentle when i did that because it hurt. so i'm very worried.. i don't want a fucking scar on my ASS! i mean it's bad enough just to see yourself, let alone worrying about boyfriends seeing it when you're getting sexed up. someone help :( is there anything i can use to reduce the colour or size? i'm still applying 8hr cream, but i don't think it will work on that? another thing that would be good is recommendations for body acne creams/cures.. i tend to get very minor tiny spots on my ass that don't hurt or need to be picked.. they just seem to be THERE, like a rash. they don't ever seem to have heads or weep or have anything inside them.. and i'm too embarrassed to go to the pharmacy and say, I HAVE SPOTS ON MY ASS, HELP PLZ. so it'd be ace if one of you lovely ladies could recommend something!

sorry i rambled so much there. it's the main worry of my life right now aside from exams. haha.

second thing.. i was wondering, those of you who have experience with genital warts, could you describe to me what they're like? about a month ago i was shaving.. *THERE*.. and afterwards i noticed a few sort of bumps just on the edge of the inside of my lips, sort of like flat skin tags.. i.e i could pull the skin off and it bled a little, but then grew back v quickly, not healed. i've now still got these bumps, and at first i thought they were irritation from shaving - like the razor was a bit lethal and made a few cuts in my skin or something? but surely that would have healed by now? they don't hurt, unless i try to pick the skin off (obviously) and i can't get an appointment at the clinic for like a month so i just wanted to get an idea on what genital warts are like.. i'm petrified that's what it is! i would google image but my pc is awful and i can't see pics properly :( and the basic description i got from google didn't really help much with a yay or nay as to whether this is warts. can anyone enlighten me?

thanks in advance! i hope this is fairly on-topic.