also, in terms of escalation of violence, what I am saying is that you have an obligation to protect yourself. If the violence will escalate, then of course, don't make it worse. That is also your obligation to yourself. But, I don't believe that in all instances that it would. That is one of those things that you have to figure out per situation, what is best for you.
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Date: 2007-05-17 04:53 pm (UTC)