My boyfriend and I had the same problem the first time we had sex. I thought that maybe it was me at first, even though I knew that he was crazy about me. As it turned out, he was pretty nervous, and that can do the trick. Now that we have been together a long time and are completely comfortable around one another, we tend to have the opposite problem :) I'm sure that if you don't give him a hard time about it, it won't always be like that.
And don't feel embarrassed about going to the doctor to get tested again. Even though my BF hadn't been with anyonce since he last got tested, he still wanted us both to get tested again as a precaution. It is always better to put your mind at ease than to worry!
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Date: 2006-11-23 06:15 pm (UTC)And don't feel embarrassed about going to the doctor to get tested again. Even though my BF hadn't been with anyonce since he last got tested, he still wanted us both to get tested again as a precaution. It is always better to put your mind at ease than to worry!