Yeah, I agree with Ravon. Just both go get tested and say it's for reassurance purposes in case an accident happens again.
You really shouldn't be embarassed or afraid to talk to the guy you're having sex with about sexual things. Hell, tell your boy that you got an STD from your husband, and you just want to be sure it doesn't happen again. (You don't have to tell him that, but it'd be a good 'excuse' to get you both tested)
I think the reason your guy is having trouble staying hard is probably the condoms. My fella had the same issue for a long time. It's just fact that it's harder to feel anything at all, so the peen loses interest, ha. It's no slight at you or anything, or even a reflection of his attraction to you-just some guys have a real fit staying hard in condoms.
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Date: 2006-11-23 05:18 am (UTC)You really shouldn't be embarassed or afraid to talk to the guy you're having sex with about sexual things. Hell, tell your boy that you got an STD from your husband, and you just want to be sure it doesn't happen again. (You don't have to tell him that, but it'd be a good 'excuse' to get you both tested)
I think the reason your guy is having trouble staying hard is probably the condoms. My fella had the same issue for a long time. It's just fact that it's harder to feel anything at all, so the peen loses interest, ha. It's no slight at you or anything, or even a reflection of his attraction to you-just some guys have a real fit staying hard in condoms.