first time bangin

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Alright so last thursday night my man and i decided to try to have a little bit of sex before we do it hardcore somewhere nice. So this is the first time I had a penis in me, and he got like a half an inch in and it hurt SO BAD! He told me I was very small and that I have to stretch myself out because I'm never gunna get anything in there. Well since then the skin below my hole feels torn and it bleeds when I insert anything in there. My question is will that stay torn and hurt everytime i have sex? What can I do to stretch myself out? I can get like a finger or a small vibrator up there...but it is really uncomfortable and doesn't feel that great...help!