I really, really like sex and though I can go without it (because of course I can just masturbate if I really want some physical satisfaction) I'd prefer to have sex on a regular basis, especially if I'm in a relationship because I a) just like it and b) like exploring that side of the relationship. Being physically intimate is just as important for me as being emtionally intimate.
I think perhaps talking about how you feel with your boyfriend would be a good idea, if you haven't already. Like some of the other comments mentioned, it's your body and no one as any right to it if you don't want them to.
For me it'd be difficult to go from having sex to having no sex because we've have it before and I know what it's like, so it's tempting to want it, if you get what I mean. I guess it's probably a bit easier to have a sex-less relationship if you've never had sex with that person before.
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Date: 2006-10-09 06:57 am (UTC)I really, really like sex and though I can go without it (because of course I can just masturbate if I really want some physical satisfaction) I'd prefer to have sex on a regular basis, especially if I'm in a relationship because I a) just like it and b) like exploring that side of the relationship. Being physically intimate is just as important for me as being emtionally intimate.
I think perhaps talking about how you feel with your boyfriend would be a good idea, if you haven't already. Like some of the other comments mentioned, it's your body and no one as any right to it if you don't want them to.
For me it'd be difficult to go from having sex to having no sex because we've have it before and I know what it's like, so it's tempting to want it, if you get what I mean. I guess it's probably a bit easier to have a sex-less relationship if you've never had sex with that person before.