vaginapagina | hooray for orgasms (Reply)

My boyfriend got me to orgasm for the first time in like 2 months! Heh. (We don't get to see each other much, and our opporotunities for sex are even less than that, so I mean it's not like we have ALOT of sex or anything, just when we do I've been too tense to be able to orgasm and it's been very frustrating. Hell, the last time we managed to get me off, we were using my vibrator. He tries his best, but it just hasn't been happening.) Buuuuut today we started fooling around, he went down on me and after some time and effort... well, you know!

Another problem is, the last few times we've tried to have sex he has some kind of shoulder/neck spasm and it's so painful for him we have to stop. Even with me on top. :( He says it's from the heavy lifting he does at work. :(((( I guess that's more just a complaint than a call for advice, since I don't think there's much we can do about it. Argh. My poor boy is falling apart!