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Hello ladies.

So, I have 2 questions this time around.

Question number one: I live with my boyfriend, and we had two of his friends living with us for a little bit, and it appears while one of them was trying to be helpful they threw away my stockpile of birth control pills. That's right, 5 months of OTC-Lo gone forever. They were in a wee black bag next to my purse, and then they were gone. I called the clinic that I get them from, and they said I can't get more until my last prescription is up. This is exceptionally unfortunate because, well, now my boyfriend is scared to have sex with me and to be honest, this is not only disappointing, it's downright devastating since I absolutely REVEL in our sex. Best ever, hands down.

But that's not why I'm here. Point is, I'm allergic to latex, so condoms are out of the question, I can't get more pills for another 5 months, and I'm just not willing to give up sex for almost half a year.

I need to know how to pinpoint when my ovulation starts, and any other options I might have for contraceptive methods. I can't find female condoms for less than $25 for three and that's too much. Gimme a hand, ladies, my vagina is counting on you!

Question number two: Ahem. All of a sudden, my boyfriend has a fixation with fisting. Not an insistent one, I doubt he'd be devastated if I never let him, but I'm the type to try anything once, I could like it, right?

He's super patient, incredibly gentle, considerate, all of the above and then some. I'm not worried about him hurting me, since after all, if a baby can come out of there, his hand should fit in, right?

What I'm worried about is the aftermath. What am I looking at for discomfort and whatnot? I don't have a whole lot of room down there, usually, and after sex I feel all stretched out and kind of tense, like a muscle ache/strain. It's tolerable, and not even close to serious enough to mention, except, well, his hand is significantly thicker than his penis :P If he can make things sore with regular PIV sex, what's a whole hand gonna do, and how do I diminish my chances of getting sore/ deal with the discomfort afterward?

And is there any possibility that he could... hurt something? I have all the faith in the world in him, he's very educated and experienced when it comes to sexual matters. I just need to know what I'm dealing with before I break out the tub o' lube and spread'em.

Sorry if I've creeped any of you out, I just figured asking you guys would get me a better response than asking my mom or something. I'm not particularly interested in knowing what my mother's experience with fisting was. :P

Thanks, girls. All the best, and tons of thanks in advance for your advice!