I have to agree, you might just be scaring yourself away :) For the longest time I could NEVER use tampons because I was afraid of them.
Also, the type you're using makes a huge difference. If you're trying to use those old super Tampax cardboards or applicator-less OB's, you're never going to be comfortable. I've been using tampons for four years and I still feel incredibly uncomfortable using those kinds of tampons. Try buying some slender (I usually buy "regular", but the "SlimFits" are really nice if you're just learning), unscented (!!!) tampons with a rounded plastic applicator (I buy my Playtex Gentle Glides in bulk from Costco). To help get it in, put a tiny bit of lube (or lube-like substance - Vaseline, etc. - which I know aren't good, but have never caused me problems) on the applicator to help it slide in easily. Also, if you aren't on your period it's going to be HELL to put a tampon in no matter what.
Wow, sorry about such a long comment! I just don't want you to be turned away from tampons because of a bad experience, but if you're set on the Divacup that's your decision. Nevertheless, it's always nice to be able to put one in if you're caught unawares and need to borrow a tampon.
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Date: 2005-06-30 10:50 am (UTC)Also, the type you're using makes a huge difference. If you're trying to use those old super Tampax cardboards or applicator-less OB's, you're never going to be comfortable. I've been using tampons for four years and I still feel incredibly uncomfortable using those kinds of tampons. Try buying some slender (I usually buy "regular", but the "SlimFits" are really nice if you're just learning), unscented (!!!) tampons with a rounded plastic applicator (I buy my Playtex Gentle Glides in bulk from Costco). To help get it in, put a tiny bit of lube (or lube-like substance - Vaseline, etc. - which I know aren't good, but have never caused me problems) on the applicator to help it slide in easily. Also, if you aren't on your period it's going to be HELL to put a tampon in no matter what.
Wow, sorry about such a long comment! I just don't want you to be turned away from tampons because of a bad experience, but if you're set on the Divacup that's your decision. Nevertheless, it's always nice to be able to put one in if you're caught unawares and need to borrow a tampon.